Tuesday, August 02, 2005
Letting go of Resentment
when you lock yourself into resentment, resistance will occur.
Those who cannot move themselves out of it, will only find themselves locked into revenge,trying to get even. Revenge is sometimes very obvious. eg. such as the person doesnt talk to u anymore, or you accidentally caught her rolling her eyes at you. It's queer,they smile on the outside but behind their back,they say negative stuffs about that person. (it's bad to do so..however it's queer,as everyone happens to do that sometimes.) But u dun gain but suffer from it.
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It's good to have a taste of resentment in our life..for that we will grow up. However, I'm standing more to the side against having resentment. Cuz the person having such feelings is actually the one in pain. It doesnt benefit you at all...So why put yourself into such a bad situation? we should learnt to take the responsibility for the part we played in creating the problem in the first place,and from there...learn from it. Please dun escape from it... for you will only make tinks worse for you and the othr party. I admit i've the feeling pf resentment lately...i dare admit that my behaviour is somewhat childish. But i've learnt from it and... things are getting better between us^^. i do hope tt everyone can learn from their mistake. dun be sturbborn and feel that you are right all the time. cuz in the end, you are the one losing out... your character doesnt improves,but SORES.
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To forgive is the highest,most beautiful form of love
In return you will receive untold peace and happiness